I’m an aquarius and my ex is a virgo

Hi,I’m an aquarius and my ex is a virgo. Im 33 and she is going to be 40 this year. We have been off and on for, 4 almost 5 years. We have been through a lot together and we honestly truely deep down love each other so much. She has been married twice and has herpes, but I still love her as she is. I have never been married or never had an std. Her main issue with me is that i’m not romantic enough and my issue with her was that I never felt she was truely in love with me (I needed positive reassurance). For years even when we didnt go together we would hangout all the time, spend the nite with each other, talk everyday, actually we are best friends. For the past two months she has been writing love letters to me expressing her love for me but i was scared. She is now in a new relationship but says she doesnt want to lose me? I told her if she is happy then go with it, but I dont think its good for us to communicate and see each other regularly. What should I do? I feel she wants her cake and eat it too, but I honestly think she still wants to be with me. We are literally best friends but I know that emotional attraction is still their between us and I want her to be happy even it’s not with me. What should I do? She texts or emails me at least once a week asking how im doing and other things. I think thats her way of staying connected?

by GT
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Hi GT,

How are you doing..??

Dude, based on your story, you should be thankful…. let her go.. I know its easy to say for me… but i was like you before..it took sometime to realize everything..it takes time to forget… you are young…there a lot of girls out there better than her.. she’s older than you.. not that I dont like women who are older than me..its just, if you are going to see her life… Its a mess no disrespect or not to hurt your feelings but she belongs to someone else…plus she got herpes which I believe there’s no cure for it.. once you get it..its there in your system..think about it…you have a better future ahead of you without her….dont ruin it… if she tries to contact with you.. thats fine…just be friends…dont fall in love again..or better yet.. forget her completely until your feelings for her fades away….

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  By greta2242, August 3, 2011 @ 11:31 pm

  I’ve been thinking about my own past today… which brought me to your site. I’m an Aquarius female and the man in the memory bank is a Virgo man. He drove me away years ago. But I’m aquarius. I knew in my bones as a girl that I was only going to fall completely in love once in my life time. And he took that love. Years and many dates later without him, I’m generally happy with life. But I’ll never love another man like I loved him. It makes me weak. It makes me pathetic even to many. I get that. But it’s also the truth. I loved him, and I was a fool.

  If you still have a chance and you sound like you do as you are the man… an action taker… tell her how you feel. Worst case scenerio is that she thinks your crazy. But is it better to put the heart on the line or better to be cool?

  Years later for me, every time I start getting close to another man… he comes back to me in memory form. I’m quite sure he’s moved on in reality. But for me, it make me sad. So if you can avoid my pain… go for it! We only live once, and if this girl is the one, the soul mate. Don’t hesitate.

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