I like this Virgo girl and I think she has the potential to be something more.

Hey,
First of all let me start by saying that I’m pretty skeptic to all this star sign thing but I’m pretty curious about it. I like this Virgo girl and I think she has the potential to be something more. She travels quite a bit and I just feel a bit lost because she send some mixed signals. When she’s in town (mostly on weekdays) she talks to me and we’re constantly taking walks (we both like to walk a lot) and talking about music (she’s a musician) or some interesting stuff (she’s intelligent and thats pretty rare where I come from). But she rarely breaks the physical security space and I get afraid of forcing myself too much on her. As a consequence we tend not touch much and that limit affects the way we communicate. I think both of us are aware of it yet none of us do anything. I don’t want to rush things because she has shown that she can be pretty stubborn which drives me nuts sometimes but I can bear it. We have been intimate (ya know) two or three times (usually after we have a night out with a few drinks as an excuse) but the next morning everything is back where it was! Then, when she’s away It’s like we never met, she goes about a week without saying a word! I don’t know if she really is that detached with her friends or if it’s just with me. I’ve manage to get her to share some of her past and about her life but I feel she does not want to revels much of her to me (I can’t figure out why the secrecy). I don’t think I’ve manage to get her attention and I’m afraid she gets bored and walks away. But this has been going on for about a year now and her patter is still the same!
In conversation I’ve hinted into a relationship but she told me she doesn’t want one. Then when talking she sometimes is tender (keeping her coolness the next moment). I don’t know if she really is interested in me or if I’m just her toy for the boring days. I’m letting it go with the flow and see what she does but she seems to be waiting for my move (whatever that may be?). I want to win her to me but maybe this relationship is just in my head.

by :MBlack
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Hi MBlack..

First of all, sorry for the delay…

I have a feeling that she’s not into serious relationship yet…based on your story you seem nice and understanding.. what is holding her back, is a mystery…Maybe she’s worried of something… Maybe she’s just exploring the world..what is out there. Did you ask her about her dream guy?? What does she think about a perfect relationship? Try to know more about her.. Be a friend to her.. be with her all the time.. there is something to flicker the switch that will her on…. find it.. discover it..ask her friends about her… ask about her previous relationship, why it did not work…talk about life.. talk about her hobbies…try to make her laugh.. Be a good conversant…Virgo women likes intelligent or smart guys..

And on the side, you somehow send her some signals that you like her… I mean, just a little bit.. just to see what her reaction will be.. what its like…is it like positive, negative, is it like there is a possibility or no hope.. from there you somehow will know where your friendship will go..

In my website,says “What attracts a Virgo Woman? Virgo woman adores men who are intelligent and well-read. So instead of bringing her expensive gifts, show her what you’ve got between your ears. She won’t stay long with someone she can’t respect so be sure to act appropriately when you’re with her. If you can handle criticisms well, falling for a Virgo woman would suit you fine. After all, females in this zodiac are known to be perfectionists. Do not take this negatively however because she can bring out the best in you.”

See… what I mean…They wont talk to you for nothing… There’s something in you that she likes it….think positive..:):)