by :linda
linda*****@***gov

Hi Linda,

Sorry for the late reply.. so busy here..

I can feel that your aqua bf is in love with you.. He just wants to make sure that you are not cheating on him and making sure that he owns you.. I felt the same way before.. but he has to feel that you can be trusted… he is insecure right now.. explain to him that you dont have any feelings for your x anymore.. I suggest you limit yourself seeing your x….

hope this helps..

I’m gonna try and make it as short as possible. I’m a virgo woman who has been having an affair for 6 months with an aquarius man who is also married. Our children are best friends and so are we. Our relationship obviously started out as friends 3 years ago but in July 2011 we realized that we both are unhappy with our partners and started texting each other for advice. It turned out that we both had feelings for each other and liked each other A LOT. As the weeks and months passed our text messages ended up in phone calls and emails and we would do heavy flirting with each other when we got together for playdates with the kids. We couldn’t stop touching and kissing each other and just wanted to be in each others company the whole time. I realized that everytime things get to steamy between us he would back off and I wouldn’t hear from him for a few days. I would ask him why and he would reply that he feels guilty and that he is scared of being caught. But nevertheless we still had contact and the feelings became more intense. I could see in his eyes that he really likes me and that he does have feelings for me and there is a deeper connection than just words and occasional touching and flirting. So – I fell in love with this man! I tried to hold back but I couldn’t. A few weeks ago he asked me to send him a video and photos of a sexual nature to him to look at whenever he misses me. So I did. And he did the same for me. (I must mention that his wife hates sex! She admitted it to me also. He has moved out 3 times before and threatened to leave her if she doesnt change and become more affectionate towards him. Then she would change her ways for a few weeks and after a while she would go back to being her old selfish self.) Anyway, so things realy started heating up between us the last few weeks and we had sex on his birthday the 1st of Feb. I told him that I appreciated him taking the time to come see me but I was under the impression that he wasn’t interessted anymore. Never he replied, will always be interested. The sex was fantastic and I truly felt loved by him. After he left he send me a text saying that he felt bad for leaving so quickly and that he would’ve loved to spent more time with me. For 2 days I haven’t heard from him afterwards. I kept on sending him text messages in those 2 days to let him know that I missed him and would like to see him again soon. He replied that he would like to see me too but can’t see me anymore. Why I asked. “God expects much more of us and I need to sort out my life and I can’t do it this way. I should not have let this happened. You deserve better than me”. I asked him “Do you love me”, he replied “love or no love I can’t do this anymore”. I asked him again do you love me and he replied “I dont know”. I asked him to please tell me how he feels and he replied “I can’t tell you because it will only open up more feelings and I don’t want that to happen. Anyway it doesn’t matter how and what I feel” I told him that I am in love with him and that I do love him with all my heart and that I have never had this connection with anyone before and that I know there is a deeper connection between us. He replied “I know there is”. Didn’t hear anything from him for the rest of the day. He also deleted me from his blackberry contact list so that we cant text each other. I saw him a day later and I could see that he is trying to avoid me in a way but he still kept making conversation in front of his wife. At first when we were alone things were a bit weird, we didn’t know what to say. By the time I left it felt like old times, we talked and joked like before – no hard feelings. I am still emotional about everyting that happend. Does he love me or is he playing with my hart? Will he come back? I know that if he comes back I won’t be able to say no to him. He has this hold over me that I can’t control. Love this man so so much! Need your advice please: does he love me. What am I to do? Thanx.

by :Heart broken Virgo woman
d******@****co.za

Hi Virgo Woman,

After reading your email… Im really sorry to say.. this is what I feel and this is what I can see……he played your heart…he is not serious about you.. he felt guilty after sex..He realized what he did is wrong… I have a feeling he still loves his wife despite of the shortcomings of his wife…..

At first…he was testing you if you are going to fall in his bait..it looks like you fell to his trap… the jokes, the sweet words, caressing are all bait.and lies. You know what.. I used to do that before…I did to other women what he did to you.. I know everything ….

This is what Im telling to all the girls who emailed me… never ever go to bed with a guy unless he says “I love you” to you.. of course it has to match those words with his actions…and how he delivered those 3 famous words….did he say that in front of you? hmmm I dont think so.. Its easy to say in text messages or email… but face to face… hmmm.. If you are lying, its hard to say that in front of the girl you dont love… Im telling you this…. specially from an Aquarian guy…

For the love of God, why did you that in the first place? In the eyes of God, what you did is totally wrong.. You will never ever see an other woman become successful in a forbidden relationship.. they always end up a loser…only on TV and movies but not in real life…. You are still married to your husband and he is married to his wife ….. If you see he is starting to flirt with you, you back off right away… dont let this thing to happen…I dont want to make a sermon like a priest or something or pretend that Im perfect.. Im not also perfect..I make mistakes too…..but I dont want to see you get hurt….or anybody… Its hard to get hurt.. I was hurt before, so, I know what it feels like…

Its up to you if you are going to listen to me but I advise you to stop it .. Focus on your family.. Relationship between husband and wife have ups and downs .. like me and my wife.. its normal…. in the end, you will realize that you are more than happy with your husband and your kids than anything else…. me and wife had hundreds of times of arguing…but we talk about our differences, sort things out and etc… and at the end of the day we are okay…I realized that I love my wife more than anything …

I hope my email makes sense to you…

Looking forward to hear your good news ….

Cheers :)

Dear Rodel,

Thank you sooo much for your reply, it was a real “eye openener”. I have decided to focus on my family and try to let go of the feelings I have for this man. As you said – he wasn’t interested so no use wasting time on him.

My family is much more important. Thank you for your honest opinion. I just want to give your wife a compliment on marrying the right man – you are a WONDERFUL husband. Good luck with your studies and all the best with your future plans for yourself and your family.

Kind regards

Heart broken Virgo Woman

by :d**y
dp****@yahoo.com

Hi d**y,

Aquarians are like that…same my response to other people who emailed me… they are moody and hard to comprehend sometimes…I think that is how we are God created us like this… For some reasons, I cannot explain why… There are times we want to be alone, sometimes we want with someone, there are times we want attention and be loved, and there are times we are sensitive even on small things… sometimes they are crazy.. sometimes a good lover, romantic, corny.. stupid.. emotional…impulsive all at the same time….

Does he talk to you, still? If he does there are still chance you and him can get back together again… sometimes relationship needs to cool off for a bit.. second time will be lovelier….Did you have a formal break up?? I have a feeling something is bothering him..could be a family problem, ffinancial, studies, career or had bad relationship before….. If he does, you need to understand him, appreciate him for he is doing.. talk to him.. and be a friend to him…and when he calms down everything will be back to normal…he will realize how important you are to him ….

How many times me and wife had argued…? A lot of times.. In fact… there were times I thought about leaving her… after I calmed down..I realized I love wife more than anything else…..It just our nature (aquarians) of being impulsive and too emotional….

I know what you feel. Ive been in a situation like you many times before… Its hard to accept things that it happened, the things you dont want to happen…

Try to talk to him as a friend.. only as a friend…..thats it…dont expect anything in return for now…its bad timing…I mean like you used to be..just say “hi” “hello” “how are you doing?” Someday somehow.. he will realize everything.. who knows maybe in the end..you are meant for each other… but only God can tell…..

I created a video maybe this can help about the Characteristics of an Aquarius Man

If he is still talking to you.. there is still a big chance…
How to attract an Aquarius Man..

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Wish you all the best…

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Sonia E.
S****@yahoo.com

Hi Sonia,

Thank you very for liking my blog.

Okay, about your problem, Aquarius has a unique personality.. they are moody and hard to comprehend sometimes…I think that is how we are God created us like this… For some reasons, I cannot explain why… There are times we want to be alone, sometimes we want with someone, there are times we want attention and be loved, and there are times we are sensitive even on small things… There are times, even normal
guys want to make sure about our feelings towards to special someone, the reason is, probably this guy was hurt before and dont want to get hurt again… that’s the usual case.. There are some guys dont want to get involve into serious relationship even if we know that this lady has a feeling for us and we dont want to hurt their feelings…

The best thing you can do to an Aquarian guy is be a friend to him…be with him when he needs you most….. that’s it .. dont give it all ..dont fall for him, yet….until you hear the 3 famous words…that’s my number one advise to my readers…

If he’s giving you mixed signals… let him chase you, let him open up…. all you have to do is smile back.. and be a friend.. trust me on this one….something good is going to happen…. most of the times.. smile can capture guy’s heart……

I have created a video about the Characteristics of an Aquarius Guy.. maybe this can help..

Wish you all the best…!! )

by:  l****@live.co.uk

What you are doing is right…and I salute you for that unlike the emails I received from the ladies…:):) you know… let him come to you, let him chase you…if he is serious about you .. if he really likes you, he will do some actions…be careful with his sweetness or sweet words .. Dont fall in his trap… I know this because I used to do this… Im telling you …like you said.. He is a ladies man….traditional way is still the best, its more romantic…But dont say anything about your feelings yet… just give him some signs…like for example ..look at him or say hi or hello every time you and him cross path or give some compliments.. or just be nice with him and specially SMILE all the time every time he’s with you… that smile can captivate man’s heart…..and its up to him how he interprets your motives..let your sweetness or kindness to him remains a mystery…..and that’s all you do.. nothing more… just be natural and be yourself…

Looking forward to hear your good news.. :)

We have gone on long walks together, sat in a cafe talking over coffee and then going for a car ride all in one day.

Now, he said that I was his best friend but doesn’t think we should be intimate anymore. A wk later we were together and it happened again. I said I thought we weren’t going to do this anymore he said that he thinks I can handle it, whatever that means. He also said this wasn’t going to last forever. I have read that aquarian men will say the opposite on how they are really feeling inside. It’s so confusing for me.

I am not the usual pisces for to be real emotional. Yrs ago I would cry over the drop of a hat an I feel I am alot stronger emotionally now. Just from life experiences and the harsh realities of the world..

I do give him his space and I had txt him a couple of times and after about two wks he txt me and he called me and talked for about in hour. I do feel he has alot of feelings for me but not 100% sure. Please give me any insight of what you think.

Thanks,

Cindy

Hi Cindy,

Thank you for visiting my site…

First of, I always advise to all the ladies who write to me about this kind of situation is to limit yourself.. Dont give it all.. Dont give everything, all your time, effort, love and feelings.. Reserve something for yourself.. Even if you already boyfriend and girlfriend..I dont want you to get hurt in the end. I was hurt before, I know what its like…So, I dont want you be in that situation.. Men always take it for granted..I mean mostly all of the men including me that once they get what they want (sex) they treat ladies like garbage.. Very few you see guys that once they had sex with ladies its special for them… In my case, after I found the love of my life..all the intimate moments that we had are memorable and special for me… Sometimes sex and physical attraction are not enough…..Its the emotion, your attitude, your sweetness, your caring, and your level of intellect attracts guys and turn them on…That’s why I tell to my readers that let him chase you…let the chasing exciting and romantic…until you hear the 3 famous words “I love you”.. once you hear that in a very special way… that means what they feel its true, specially if it comes from an Aquarian guy.. and once you hear that, we are locked on you… that’s the truth.. If they do not pursue, that means what they feel is not real…Or sometimes, some guys control their feelings because maybe they got hurt before and dont want to get hurt again or they maybe they are making sure that their feelings for you are real.. If that’s the case, still, never mind them..

I really dont know why Aquarius men are hard to comprehend.. even me.. its just maybe our nature are like that.. cant explain why..but that’s the way we are…sometimes we say “I love you” but means nothing for us.. like I said .. depending on how they deliver those 3 famous words…

Sometimes ladies are expecting too much from a guy…if they say “I love you” w/o feelings they think its real..Its because that’s what you are expecting.. even if their actions dont match to what they say.. you know..

Best tip, be sincere to him and be a friend to him, when he needs some advise or a confidant, help him… and thats it, no more no less.. Someday somehow he will realize that he cannot live without you and you have a special place in his heart, let the nature takes it course.. If you are meant for each other, it will happen, who knows, maybe you and him are both for each other in the end..It just needs some time…

Maybe this video can help.. I created this video for ladies who are asking me about Aquarius man..

If you have any questions, let me know…

Hoping to hear the good news next time…:):)

Best of luck…

by :jess

Hi Jess,

Thank you for contacting me..

First of all, I feel that the guy you are talking about here likes you…no doubt..but it looks like he is trying to know you more.. He is kind of studying you, testing your or making sure what he truly feels for you… was he got hurt before in a relationship? If he was, that is the tendency..giving you mix signals because they dont want to get hurt again….. It happened to me before that’s why I kept asking myself “Do I really like this girl?” , “Is she really serious about me?”..and other questions that pops up on my mind…

Secondly, why in the hell you said those 3 magic words prematurely? It has to come from him first…:(:(:( .. Now you gave him the confidence, thinking that he can play around and go back to you anytime he wants…He will think “She likes me anyway.. so, I can do whatever I want..” .. Being his seriousness will come when the right time comes.. I dont really know for how long..but it will come..

What I can suggest to you, since you said what you said…you already opened the doors for him.. let him come to you.. just be a friend to him and that’s it….meaning be there when he needs you and dont pressure him..The more you pressure him the more he will go away from you…Aquarians dont like that… if he really likes you, he will make an effort.. The 3 magic words are very special for them..If they say that, that means they mean it… So, for now, just a be a friend to him and dont give it all.. reserve something for you..I dont want you to get hurt in the end….

Hoping for the best …

thank you
sai***

sai********@*****.com

Hi Sai,

Its really hard to tell.. I know what you feel…I was like you before but only time and God can tell…There are times that even if you have done everything, if you are not meant for each other, there’s nothing you can do… There are times you will end up falling in love or marrying with somebody you already know.. Could be a long time friend, could be her best friend, or your classmate before.. who knows.. Life is full of surprises.. just do everything to make your relationship lasts.

Wishing you all the best

by :Micheal
Michael***@….au

Our relationship so far is still okay… but there were times that I almost gave up .. I actually thought about walking out of the door and living alone but every time it comes to my mind I dont want to be impulsive or impetuous cause this decision can make your life miserable and could have some effect to your kids(specially) and regret it later on.. After some careful thinking, my love to my wife and kids still reign over our problems and disagreements that if you will scrutinize it, it is only small little thing that can be sorted out.. I guess because we have the same likes and dislikes and we love each other..:)

Mike, if you have anything to add to this or you have something to say email me back or reply to this post.. please please