Do aquarian men eventually come crossing all borders for the woman they love or are they too practical in these matters?

Hi Rodel, thanks for your webpage where people like us can discuss our problems. I did try to submit my queries once before but am not sure whether you have got it as the page showed errors while sending. Anyway, cutting to the chase,I am a saggitarius girl and I met this guy who is an Aquarian and is 10 years elder to me at a friend’s place 3 times very casually. He and my cousin works in the same place. After this we didnot have any contact for 3 months and then suddenly he started calling me. I didnot give him my number but he has acquired it from somewhere. But he would be very indirect and sutle in his expressions and always maintained his reserveness. But something about him made me fall for him and I started to show my emotional side. The moment I did that a couple of times he became very rude and indicated as if I was running after him and he isn’t interested in me.So I went my way and stopped any contact. This has happened a few times now.The moment I stop contacting him he comes running after me. But all his actions are sutle and never direct and he tries to keep all this under wrap as he works with my cousin and doesnot want this to come out. I have also told him the 3 words one day but he has never said it back to me.When I am contacting him he just talk to me casually but doesn’t give any effort to make any progress from where we are. I have always gone out of my comfort zone to make things happen but he has always kept within his safe limits and does everything in an indirect way. Do you think he has any serious plans about me or any feelings for me?OR is he taking advantage of my feelings for him and testing how far will I go for him? I want him to come for me and make me feel special rather than me running after him. I contact him to show I am interested in him but he does nothing from his end to proceed in our relationship. Please advice me on what to do in this situation and also give me some insight on what an Aquarian man will do for the woman he truly loves and wants and how do they show their love. Do aquarian men eventually come crossing all borders for the woman they love or are they too practical in these matters? Pease reply soon,I need your help.

by :jess

Hi Jess,

Thank you for contacting me..

First of all, I feel that the guy you are talking about here likes you…no doubt..but it looks like he is trying to know you more.. He is kind of studying you, testing your or making sure what he truly feels for you… was he got hurt before in a relationship? If he was, that is the tendency..giving you mix signals because they dont want to get hurt again….. It happened to me before that’s why I kept asking myself “Do I really like this girl?” , “Is she really serious about me?”..and other questions that pops up on my mind…

Secondly, why in the hell you said those 3 magic words prematurely? It has to come from him first…:(:(:( .. Now you gave him the confidence, thinking that he can play around and go back to you anytime he wants…He will think “She likes me anyway.. so, I can do whatever I want..” .. Being his seriousness will come when the right time comes.. I dont really know for how long..but it will come..

What I can suggest to you, since you said what you said…you already opened the doors for him.. let him come to you.. just be a friend to him and that’s it….meaning be there when he needs you and dont pressure him..The more you pressure him the more he will go away from you…Aquarians dont like that… if he really likes you, he will make an effort.. The 3 magic words are very special for them..If they say that, that means they mean it… So, for now, just a be a friend to him and dont give it all.. reserve something for you..I dont want you to get hurt in the end….

Hoping for the best …