Hi, ok where to start! Iv known this virgo man for about 3 years and in that whole time iv never lost interest. He’s so confusing and pickles my head but I can tell there is more to him than he let’s on. Anyway problem is he’s a bit of a ladies man, we haven’t slept together but I’m unsure if he likes me or if he just wants sex. We’ve always said to each other that there must be something but how do you know? How do you ask without bein forward? Usually i would just come out with it but don’t want to scare him of
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What you are doing is right…and I salute you for that unlike the emails I received from the ladies…:):) you know… let him come to you, let him chase you…if he is serious about you .. if he really likes you, he will do some actions…be careful with his sweetness or sweet words .. Dont fall in his trap… I know this because I used to do this… Im telling you …like you said.. He is a ladies man….traditional way is still the best, its more romantic…But dont say anything about your feelings yet… just give him some signs…like for example ..look at him or say hi or hello every time you and him cross path or give some compliments.. or just be nice with him and specially SMILE all the time every time he’s with you… that smile can captivate man’s heart…..and its up to him how he interprets your motives..let your sweetness or kindness to him remains a mystery…..and that’s all you do.. nothing more… just be natural and be yourself…
Okay, I met this aquarius man about four months ago and we actually hit it off very well. I am a pisces women of 52yrs and he a 48yr old will be 49.
We met when we were both under the influence of a good time.
He had just ended a relationship with his ex wife which they were married twice and divorced and then lived together, still didn’t work out.She too is aquarius, I know he loved her very much.
We ended up going home together. Probably a big mistake but it can’t be reversed.
We spent a measurable amount of time together in the next few months. He would say that he liked me alot but not ready for a relationship/commitment right now.
The first part of november,we spent like four days together out of five. We do live 100miles apart.We had hours of conversations in person and on the phone. I guess his independence was threatened and he told me that i was his best friend but beings we have been intimate several times almost everytime we were together. I feel he truly cares about me.He has gazed into my eyes for long periods of time and one time he pulled away from his deep gaze and had said that not yet it’s too soon. I felt he was going to tell me that he loved me. He has said that he loved me but not in a sober mind. I told him one time after he made the comment he didn’t want me to love him cause he didn’t want to hurt me I told him that I didn’t love him but I do.
We have gone on long walks together, sat in a cafe talking over coffee and then going for a car ride all in one day.
Now, he said that I was his best friend but doesn’t think we should be intimate anymore. A wk later we were together and it happened again. I said I thought we weren’t going to do this anymore he said that he thinks I can handle it, whatever that means. He also said this wasn’t going to last forever. I have read that aquarian men will say the opposite on how they are really feeling inside. It’s so confusing for me.
I am not the usual pisces for to be real emotional. Yrs ago I would cry over the drop of a hat an I feel I am alot stronger emotionally now. Just from life experiences and the harsh realities of the world..
I do give him his space and I had txt him a couple of times and after about two wks he txt me and he called me and talked for about in hour. I do feel he has alot of feelings for me but not 100% sure. Please give me any insight of what you think.
Thanks,
Cindy
Hi Cindy,
Thank you for visiting my site…
First of, I always advise to all the ladies who write to me about this kind of situation is to limit yourself.. Dont give it all.. Dont give everything, all your time, effort, love and feelings.. Reserve something for yourself.. Even if you already boyfriend and girlfriend..I dont want you to get hurt in the end. I was hurt before, I know what its like…So, I dont want you be in that situation.. Men always take it for granted..I mean mostly all of the men including me that once they get what they want (sex) they treat ladies like garbage.. Very few you see guys that once they had sex with ladies its special for them… In my case, after I found the love of my life..all the intimate moments that we had are memorable and special for me… Sometimes sex and physical attraction are not enough…..Its the emotion, your attitude, your sweetness, your caring, and your level of intellect attracts guys and turn them on…That’s why I tell to my readers that let him chase you…let the chasing exciting and romantic…until you hear the 3 famous words “I love you”.. once you hear that in a very special way… that means what they feel its true, specially if it comes from an Aquarian guy.. and once you hear that, we are locked on you… that’s the truth.. If they do not pursue, that means what they feel is not real…Or sometimes, some guys control their feelings because maybe they got hurt before and dont want to get hurt again or they maybe they are making sure that their feelings for you are real.. If that’s the case, still, never mind them..
I really dont know why Aquarius men are hard to comprehend.. even me.. its just maybe our nature are like that.. cant explain why..but that’s the way we are…sometimes we say “I love you” but means nothing for us.. like I said .. depending on how they deliver those 3 famous words…
Sometimes ladies are expecting too much from a guy…if they say “I love you” w/o feelings they think its real..Its because that’s what you are expecting.. even if their actions dont match to what they say.. you know..
Best tip, be sincere to him and be a friend to him, when he needs some advise or a confidant, help him… and thats it, no more no less.. Someday somehow he will realize that he cannot live without you and you have a special place in his heart, let the nature takes it course.. If you are meant for each other, it will happen, who knows, maybe you and him are both for each other in the end..It just needs some time…
Maybe this video can help.. I created this video for ladies who are asking me about Aquarius man..
:)
February 9, 2012 4:40 am | 
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